Music and Male Expressions of Feeling or Vulnerability

I think that all music contains within it masculinity and femininity, regardless of the gender of the person making it or delivering it. Where do you come down on questions of acknowledging artist's bad behavior? We're never going to pretend it never happened, because i don't think that serves anyone or anything. And obviously it's up to person to person, like, how much does this, how much can you accept or defend or not think about ex is artist for sure.