The Offering of the Will to God

In order to receive the rest, there are three conditions. Come to me take my yoke and learn, for i am gentle and humble in heart. And so he calls us to offer our wills and to bend our necks under that yoke. That is the offering of the will to god. It is an absolute transfer. Point two, i am still having offered my will to god to make my requests. The bible ear tells me, make your requests known to god, as monica did. Her agonized, whole hearted request was, don't let this boy go to rome. And god, let him go to Rome. Now, what do we learn from this?