The Most Fundamental Human Act Is Accepting Reality as It Is

The most fundamental human act is a so ive heard you say, because are you encouraging people not to get depressed about the state of things? I feel like what's really important for us to do at all times is it's like a both and instead of an either or and. If we just completely accept reality as it is right then what happens is we don't actually create a different reality. But if we get on the other extreme of constantly ing into a different reality without acceptingreality as it is, then we're not grounded. And rooted in the present time.