"We're just predisposed to believe that right means same," she says. "It's a form of me stroking my own ego, saying, hey, if that person does well, then that's going to make me look good because they're like mei the other day." The author is married to someone similar to her but very different in many ways. She talks about learning this was in the context of marriage.

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