Love bombing is the use of like love to not coerce but to attract you in a way that they can't fulfill on their end. It's about identifying what it's in response to so it's love bombing if it's in responded to perhaps you pulling away or them having done something maybe a little bit wrong yeah and then setting you up. Love bombing would be seen as a form of manipulation for some people who have no negative intentions towards you or no desire to manipulate you. Like it actually takes vulnerability and honestyYeah and often they're super on board for that first chapter Yeah where it's just like super fun and there's no responsibility, he says.