Turn Yourself On w/ Esther Perel
Sex With Emily
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Sex Versus Erroticism: Pleasure vs Performance
Pleasure is not orgasm, first of all. Pleasure is the attention that you give to me. Pleasure can happen without any of the trappings of what we consider a sexual act. Good sex is directly connected to self worth. Can i ask for what i want? Can i take the time that i to take? Can i expect that you would want to do something that maybe is not in your preferences, but you're doing it for me? You know, i love to work with arround sexuality with ta vocabulary of key verbs. Like every time you learn a language, you need to learn the key verbs. Sexuality is a language that demands the keywords. How do
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