If you're the one in the receiving position like you absolutely can. Be the person who controls like the depth and the speed and um the pressure and kind of like all of those things. It's okay to take breaks any kind of burning sensation if you're the receiver you need to take a break that means your tissue is getting irritated. Avoid fissures and fissures take forever to heal so avoid the fissures be good to the booty hole and just take it at the speed that it wants to go yeah.