You Did Not Get It From My Side of the Family

I was raised in this Christian group where because I was not straight up and down, despite being quite thin back then, I still thought that my body wasn't right. Because of this modesty culture, I didn't have a category for not being a child. Like there was no category for just being a woman. You were either a teenager or you were like a mom. To dress in a way that made you look like an adult woman, I either had to dress like I was a mom of like five teenage kids,. which frankly I love. But as a young 19 20 year old university, I wanted to dress like a cute professional young woman. And I had no way to do that