Are You Attracted to What You Haven't Yet Developed?

i do think there's a part of attraction where you're drawn to what you haven't yet developed. And that's good from just a enogh, you're ing a parent to have a range of capacities. But also about the elements of self that we want to develop, we're trying to figure out, and so we're drawn to it. What a lot of us do as then go on to resent it and dislike it or smells,. even though we found it attractive and compelling at first. I love that it really points to a sort of the immature versus mature approach to relationships.