What Are You Good At? And Where's the Intersection of Those Things?

If you're not totally lost, then i think you also identify. The right way to do that is sort of figure out what are the different sort of types of identities you can have. And maybe even which one is more like something you want to embody and learn how to be. A sense that a man is very confident and feels good about himself is very seductive as long as it doesn't go into like an arrogance. But the idea that you hate yourself, that you have no self esteem, is very repulsive. You have the power to turn off that voice inside of you,. If you understand that that critical voice in you will help you overcome your natural hesitancy towards women