The First Step Is Always the Receiving

The first step is always the receiving. Ye, we always want to actually o right? We always want to get to the third and fourth step. But, um, we have to know that it's safe to even go that far in conflict and conversationand in becoming vulnerable with each other. So just learning to receive what the other one gives. And so if we can learn to receive the love offering, that's part of building intimacy or trust. It could be a lot worsend if he feels hurt. And trust, it's like you put your arm around him. And then you can step forward and say, but hey, we dot need to remember, yes.