Flexibility Is a Universal Principle of Happiness

Many people are miserable because they approach decision making and planning so rigid. The five year plan is helpful to create a vision, but if the vision doesn't play out exactly as you wrote it on your piece of paper then sometimes people will smash themselves against that. People do this with their kids. They're not flexible about that or even they may even be inflexible with their kids plans. So we need to build, we need to make sure that the software serves that flexibility. But in it's in there is a bit of a bend, don't break thing.