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How Perfectionism and Shame Lead to Stress and Burnout

You Are Not A Frog

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The Importance of Identity in a Doctor's Life

Shame is a gendered thing. And I think it's a different shame when they, when they show weakness. So if men show weakness in any setting, they may well experience shame. For women, you're expected to do everything, do it all perfectly and pretend it was no effort at all. If you leave those things, then you can experience shame. But for me having been an extremely busy doctor, mum, wife, all those other identities I carry - I suddenly couldn't do any of them anymore. And so I therefore experience shame I think.

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