The Power of Optionality

optionality is the power to disengage from interacting with some one and just leave. If you're not having a great time, you can very politely excuse yourself. In settings where there's not much optionality, were almost forced to spend time with a group of people. I actually think that leads to much more fruitful relationships and much of deeper connections. And this also a thing for housemaids and flat maids and n people that you happen to be on same floor of your halls with while you 're at university.