So then you have One person is not good married another person is not good and they procreate and then they're like what kind of environment? What kind of environment were they raised in so it doesn't excuse the behavior by any means But I just it's part of getting older and having the understanding it's like man I wouldn't do that part of there's a great lesson that read the founder of Dunkin Donuts biography autobiography he's writing with his 80s old 84 maybe and He talks about that like the reason he had insane drive to build Dunkin Donuts and all the businesses that he built before Dunkin Donuts Like that guy started working full-time when he was like 11. He didn't take a day off to he's like 23 I completely that one day off and part of that was because like he was raised in poverty and his dad was able-bodied But wasn't hard working and so he has a great line in that book. This has something like sometimes The best lessons we learn are from the weaknesses of otherwise good people. He's like my dad was a good hit Dunkin Donuts founder Bill I forgot his last name Rosenberg or something like that. He's like My dad was a good person, but he had a weakness and he's like so I had this internal drive that my kids are never going to experience Like that level of pain that comes from poverty not being able to pay the bills So she has to question I lit something on fire in the house wrong. I should have done that like that's obviously stupid the house was not in danger of burning down and Like that's maybe the worst ask whipping he gave me and I knew it was bad because my mom like tried to get him to stop I'm like jumping front one So that's just that's your question

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