Friendships and the Test of Time

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When I think about my friends no one friend fulfills all of my desires But all of them are some magnet in some different way. What attracts you to someone and what keeps you them over time is they have some sort of magnet. If that magnet leaves then that can be a catalyst for a friendship ending too And I think the same thing applies to romantic relationships.

It's human nature to worry about the things that can go wrong.

But often overlooked is the mentality of attraction instead of detraction, or in other words focusing on what you can bring to the table instead of what you can prevent from happening.

While so many companies signal they want entrepreneurial candidates yet don't allow side projects, want out of the box thinkers yet expect them to work in a box (office), and vow they only hire top talent yet pay below market rate... there's power in thinking through whether you're truly focusing on attracting the right people or just trying to prevent wrong behavior.

In this episode, Steph and Cal discuss the mentality of being a magnet instead of a jail, originally inspired by this tweet of Steph's.