#95: 3 Essential Ingredients to Make a Relationship Work
On Attachment
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The Power of Self-Protective Patterns in Relationships
An example of this might be, and this is one that I've encountered many times from people that I've worked with. If someone has disorganized attachment style, fearful avoided patterns where they really want to get close but their self-protective patterns are just so fierce it causes them to disappear. And then they experience extreme guilt and shame and they come back and they are apologetic but then things get vulnerable again. They see the other person as the enemy in these moments of rupture or whatever.
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