The Importance of Being Self Gifted

"I have to remind myself that every man married married after a year it's I've I've told myself before what you're tempted to into a band your vocation," he says. "The holding hands of watching a movie that that is an outward sign of a much deeper reality of self gift whereas I'm not tempted in this moment for the self gift I'm tempted for the outward sign and I have to bring myself like when I was in the seminary I went to one of my favorite professors and I said I'm in love with the girl I don't know what to do about this."