How Long Did You Talk About This?

I think a big part of it is you're so petrified on these dates that you don't even like pay attention to the person. You're all totally focused on yourself, right? And not in a selfish way, just in a fear. So the tendency when you're worried about being cool versus being lame of characterizing it to spin the judgment. Yes. The best thing you can do like a, like when Ellie comes in, she doesn't try and fight. She just rolls over on her back, totally submits. And then she gets petted. That's something to ask about later.