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Ep 106: Fear of Intimacy + Commitment

Help Me Be Me

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Dobomen Serge Behavior Pattern

We need to be seen and understood by our parents. If we're not, we develop a belief that we are inherently bad and wrong. This creates what doctor a daniel j segle calls a conquest repulsion cycle. Another label for this pattern is dobomen serge behavior pattern. So when the original pattern is recreated, a person wants love from you, and then you feel disgust and intense anger.

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