The Midlife Crisis

People come in and they have this idea of what they want their entire life to look like. And I'll never forget somebody who once told me when I was an intern at Sun Microsystems, he's like, you have your whole life planned out. Let me tell you nothing is going to go according to plan. You know, how do we at the outset bring questions of stability and questions of meaning into relationship with each other so that they can be in dialogue straight away?