You and I, Going Through Grief on a Very Similar Time Line

Lolly is going through grief on a very similar time line with her mother. She says it's important to not hold ourselvesup to the expectation that we squashed our feelings right back down so that we could be available for some one else. Lolly: When i am in the depths of pain, or when i am in my own grief, you know, i am an option. I could let the world and my pain and suffering make my heart hard and close it off. Or i can do what i choose to do, which is returned to the very thing that i am - love itself.