We get so caught up in, I want to be married by 26. And I want to have two kids, and he wants to have bought my first home by 29. And at 35, I want the most impactful life I can possibly live. But we let other people's metric systems dictate the happiness in our life. On an Olympic scale, four goals and six silver is abundantly and clearly greater than six goals. We often debate LeBron James, Michael Jordan. Let's talk about the same exact result, first place and or second place Jordan and LeBron.