If you walked in on your husband looking at porn, I think even today you would still be considered in the right to yell at him. But for some reason, because the pornography and the obscenity has to do with him pretending to be a woman, it's okay. My children were exposed to sex toys at their father's house. They just found lying about the house like openly on the bed. He had two of my children sleeping with him and his lover and in their bed that they shared. That is entirely inappropriate. And in addition to that, this lover threatened to kill my kids, the female, the male on testosterone, threatened to killMy ex-husband and threatened to