Introduction

In a start up, founders basically have to figure out how to optomize for relationship that lasts for like, ten years. The only models for understanding that kind of relationship actually come probably from our parents A and so i'd like to start off with some marriage research. So this is john gotman. He studied marriages in seattle. And one of the most surprising things that he discovered was that it's not that successfully married people who will last a long time that they never fight. There's something about the way we will have an argument that determines longevity.