How Do I Leave a Good Marriage for the Perfect Man?

"I feel like I could leave, but I'm paralyzed with fear at the prospect of hurting Grace family and ironically of hurting Gray despite what my actions say," she writes. "He doesn't see me. He wants the small me that stays in the neatly packaged box." She says it's easy to let our grief and sadness and fantasies take hold as a metaphor for an alternative life path. 'You know exactly how fast that car drives, how it feels to sit in the driver's seat'