Maia Szalavitz is an American reporter and author who has focused much of her work on the topic of addiction. She is the co-author of Born for Love and The Boy Who Was Raised as a Dog, both with Dr. Bruce D. Perry. Her latest book is Unbroken Brain: A Revolutionary New Way of Understanding Addiction

In this paradigm-shifting interview, Maia Szalavitz explains that addiction is a learning disorder, a developmental disorder, which is a different way of thinking of addiction than it being a disease or a moral failing.

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In This Interview, Maia Szalavitz and I Discuss…

Her book, Unbroken Brain: A Revolutionary New Way of Understanding Addiction
That your brain becomes what it does – that the more you repeat an activity, the easier it becomes
How addiction is a developmental disorder and how learning is critical to addiction
The problems with discussion about addiction as a disease
Arguing that addiction is a disease and then treating it like a moral failing
Addiction resets your priorities and causes one to make different decisions
Addiction = compulsive behavior that continues despite negative consequences
How illogical it is then to try and address addiction by focusing on implementing additional negative consequences
The complexity of addiction, genes + culture + timing
The developmental history that gets you to addiction
How the drug isn’t the problem and our efforts to get rid of it isn’t a helpful solution
Addiction as a learning disorder that is characterized by a resistance to punishment
The problem with “rock bottom” is it’s not helpful scientifically, and it implies a moral component of having to reach a point of extreme degradation before you can stop.
What the motivation is that turns people to recovery
How addicts keep using because they can’t see how they can survive any other way
Recovery begins when you start to see that there are other options
People with addiction are living at a point of learned helplessness
The role of hope and other ways of managing their life
Addiction as a coping mechanism
The pleasures of the hunt vs the pleasures of the feast
Wanting vs Liking
Different motivational states
Addiction as escalating wanting
Stimulants and chasing that satisfaction
The effectiveness and usefulness of 12 Step Programs
The role of medicine in a developmental disorder
Looking at addicts as students who need to learn better coping skills rather than sinners who need to be forced to repent.

Maia Szalavitz Links:

maiasz.com

Twitter

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