How to Deal With Offended People

When I pop off, when I yell, when I scream, when I curse, or when I just kind of silent assassin back away, go dark, relationships over, I am communicating to someone made in the image of God, I don't value you. We are not saying don't get angry, be slow, but wield that anger like a scalpel. Next, James moves from how do I deal with a person who has offended me to how do I respond to the Bible when it exposes me? In 22, he says, but be doers of the word and not hearers only deceiving yourselves.