When another marriage goes down, it's a perfect Opportunity to project onto that whatever evil you don't want to look at in yourself. It's another kind of tool for denial if that makes sense those feelings are too big to feel you project so when somebody gets divorced you project it onto them and you go we're good though They're they're the dumbfucks. I remember when I got divorced I told this other guy about how great it was my wife left me and it wasn’t great right away But like a year later. He was like you realize I got married because you told me that if you have Sex before marriage we go to hell right Like you're a huge reason