The Unidirectional Evolution of Consciousness

At some point you awaken to the predicament of what you are doing here. The meaning of your life changes from then on. When I look at human beings I'm always roughly seeing the same being who is manifesting in these different forms to work out their work. So now when I look at you and I see gray hair or white shirt am I seeing like am I saying ah you're a white shirt no I say you're wearing a white shirt well now if I look atyou am I sayingAh red hair am I saying you're wearing red hair or red moustache? See where at what level do you say oh no I'm not wearing it that's who I am see what