Is There a Compassionate Way to Say No to Generational Junk?

Ruth has a question for us, how do you tell your relatives that you don't want their generational junk? Is there a diplomatic way to say no when emotions are involved? Well, maybe the better it consects instead of diploma is is there a compassionate way to saying no? And i think like whenever a, i don't know, whenever a family member offers me something that i'm not going to use. I come at it from a compassionate, hey, this isn't... Haha, it's late. You know, when my oma try to give me that paper waight? God love her."