Asking Stunned Questions

Our next call is from jacklin. She basse has a question about asking for help and how you go about it. What is your mind set when you are asking questions or asking for help? Do you fear looking stupid? If so, ah, how do you deal with that? Also, at a more technical level,How do you get help? For example, How do you know when to reach out, who to reach out to, and how to get what you need from that interaction?