Is a Relationship a Horrible Place to Get Our Needs Met?

I think if we don't make that as black and white, like what I really appreciate about what you're saying is, oh, you have a need to be needed or to be wanted. As long as I feel that I'm giving her a gift or taking care of her in a way that she can't do on her own. That's enough for me. Most men who I've known have that feeling that we don't want the other person to be needy or to be so dependent on us where it's like I got this, exactly.