What Is This Like for You?

"I think that this is how the conversation won't go sideways let's say your partner does exactly what Aaron just said comes to you and really asks what is this like for you," he says. "It's your opportunity to launch into your story well you know what I know that when I'm feeling disappointed and I'm kind of like throwing that at you." He adds: "What is being tapped into for me is this other story this other place this this other emotion or this need or this longing"