How to Have a Successful First Date

Online dating creates this kind of numbers game, people then try to like gamify it or make it as effective as possible. I want someone who can go through a talk about the weather and not make it weird toward the other person by being like, no, no, we're going to do my essay questions. But if I ask you, how was your day? I'm going to learn a lot about you because I cannot be with someone who doesn't take that as a prompt to complain about their job. It's like when you ask somebody what was high school like and they're like, everything was fine. Like me. When I would add was on a date and I was like