The four enemies of gratitude are money, comparison, entitlement and selfishness. A pastor once told Lawson that if he spoke in front of a hundred women, they would line up to tell him what a great job he'd done; but when he did the same thing with 100 men, it was like cockroaches. There's an exercise where you can list things to be thankful for every day: "I'm grateful i can lift 800 pounds cause jesus is with me." If you didn't do that last week, maybe you may not be able to save yourself from being ungrateful.
Chasing riches is an enemy of gratitude and a catalyst for discontentment: A lot of things can steal our contentment as dads; especially something like money that will have us staring at our bank account, obsessed with the numbers inside. Only serving money will usher destruction into our lives. However, If we trust God with our money, we'll soon discover genuine gratitude and learn how little we actually NEED. If we give (money, time, energy, expertise) out of pure generosity and desire to serve others, God's grace can flow through us and into them.