Lisa Kogan: Who's this book for? Anyone that's gotten to a place in a relationship or in several of the relationships where they're starting to say, I just can't take it anymore. That's who needs this book. And if you want to get proactive so you don't get to the place where you start saying over some of your relationships,. Be proactive and go ahead and educate yourself about good boundaries and good buys. "I really think this book will help any human who interacts with other humans," she says.