How to Talk to Your Son if He Was Hurt

"I understand that, okay, your inner child and inner pain are connected," he says. "Change the language of adult because you're an adult because inwardly I'm still a child." Healing can happen faster when you learn to love and treat people where they are versus where you want them to be,. He asks his audience to make it personal by saying this in all caps: Increase my maturity. And my love. One more time. Father? Increase my maturity...and my love.