It sounds like you and your husband already are having some conversations about these things because he asked if you were comfortable with him looking at pornography in the first place. So I hope that you're also able to then kind of say, oh, actually, I am feeling these insecurities. And then with him being able to be like, okay, what are the insecurities? Are there ways that we can help to alleviate them, reassure them, make you feel more comfortable?
Welcome back to the Doing It agony aunts miniseries, where Hannah and her assistant Megan answer your questions with friendly advice! This week is all about feelings about porn - about your partner watching porn, examining discomfort about porn, and finding positive stories about porn. All the general narratives are either about conflict, secrecy, shame and, if you're lucky, maybe it's played for lols. But having examples of positive stories and interactions with porn can help us all build new frameworks in how we feel about it and hopefully have a positive impact on our relationships too.
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