Relationship With God

Most marriage problems come from trying to get things from people that we should be getting from earth, from god. And so ya, our f primary priority here is our relationship with god. So when a guy says, i just have god, you know, the bible says in psalm 23, cup overflows you. That's how i phrase it as well. A guy's struggle alot of times with relationships. But let's get our boots on the ground here. What does it take in your life to make him first, ahead of your wife? You know, what can you pass on to these guys listening who are relationally awkward?