The Impact of Being a Clumsy Waiter on Loved Ones

I feel very, very kind of responsible for wrecking my first marriage. And it was simply the job that did it in those sort of awful conversations you have when you're breaking up with somebody. My wife said, I understand you really like your job and enjoy your job. But she said, can you imagine how painful it is for me? Only three days after you get back from something awful, you're starting to talk about leaving again. You know, I was too sort of self obsessed and to wrapped up in myself to to understood the pain that that gave. What would you say to yourself at that time now? Well, I often think it's much better if you're not