How Do Soulmates Have Conflict?

"I think a lot of people in my generation, particularly with the way that we were raised," she says. "We are all unique but I also do believe that sometimes we conflate what's a real problem versus what is this sort of fantasized ideal." 69% of problems come from those big differences between you, he adds. You don't want to give up what's absolutely crucial to your identity because a compromise will never work.