What Is Emotional Infidelity?

Sister, we are always debating the definition of emotional infidelity. It feels to me like there's an energy of openness and tension. And then there's this thing that can happen where it's like a tug of or like a rope,. You've promised that you're only going to hold on to sort of tension and openness and tightness and intimacy with this person. And then somebody else, like, grabs that kind of attention from you... But there's this gy that you can encourage, like, you can, you feel it catch you, and then you can stay open to it. That is what love is. Ok? Sister, we have a question from laura, who