Bob Greene: I knew you were going to invoke Bob Putnam or Ray Oldenburg who wrote The Great Good Place and talked about the loss of third places. We used to have all of these third places to which we would go like bowling leagues or churches or pubs, barbershops," he said. "That's where we would gather in these areas that were more a neutral ground, a leveler" He says if you're pretty proactive, you can kind of create or still find these third places.