I think the problem here is that so first of all I don't think you're the asshole unless we're like missing something. If one person blames another person and the other person feels guilty Does that mean that a guilty person made a mistake? Could it though it could you're correct it could But it's not a definite yes You get that mm-hmm but I do yeah. The episode happened I asked hey, I need to see a doctor Didn't get to see one Then the mom was very very harsh shows Overly stressed out. I didn't know what to do or think Yeah, so I mean I don't Think you did anything wrong here It sounds to me like honestly