Why Do I Burn My Hand on a Stove?

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Most people don't want to understand why they procrastinate. They just want to stop doing it. I love understanding, but insight doesn't get you moving. That may be one of my biggest flaws. It's like, I need to understand this if I'm going to accomplish anything. Modern Western cultures are,. especially the, a lot of the United States Western culture is just like, if I'm not working that other people are like, wow. What are your thoughts on that stuff?

It’s February. It’s that time of year when we start to wonder if we might not follow through with our New Year’s resolutions. It’s that time of the year when procrastination becomes a centerpiece of our psychological concerns.

Our guest in this episode is professor, author, therapist, and speaker Britt Frank, a trauma specialist who treats people with a unique and powerful set of techniques and approaches which, taken together, helps clients to get out of the feeling of being STUCK.

Author of The Science of Stuck, she says, “Procrastination is not a character flaw. Nor is it a sign of weakness. Nor is it a sign of laziness.⁣ Procrastination is an indicator that internal consent has not been given. When our inner parts are distressed, afraid, sad, angry, grief-stricken or anxious, it is important to listen to their concerns, not to shame them or coerce them into action.⁣”

In the show you’ll learn about the physiological origins of procrastination – the inner brake pedal and gas pedal – and what to do to escape the two different versions of this universal challenge to getting unstuck and getting things done.