Rasig: My whole life, i've defined myself as someone who's always nice and doesn't honk horns at people. And so you were her sweedi. She specifically wanted to keep you sweet tofill the void that her husband wasn't filling. Your parents should who you need them to be, whether you are who they need. I know we've talked about iron john a lot unless podcast, but the tiniest recap is, iron john is the hairy wild man s in a cage.