It's one of the most off putting things anybody can experience in any human interaction. I want them to have conviction, even if it's in disagreement with me. What i'd like is to convince them. And what people think when they have that feeling is that if i do this, i can fix it. But sometimes you can't accepting that. It's part of the beginning of the journey to true consciousness. Its realizing the world is not as you wish it to be. Yeh. That is the key to the path of self development, true self development.