"I came into this interview a thinking that this wouldn't help me. I'm going to try it because i'm desper but deep in my heart, i was like, resist," she says. "You did good job of moving me from kind of pre contemplative to contemplative so i came in knowing all the answers, butKnowing all the answers led me to the wrong conclusion." She adds: "The problem is when clients start to assume responsibility for the whole world that they can't change,. That's when they really start to feel devastated"