Don't break up with your girlfriend or boyfriend or boyfriend. It's the worst. And then two, don't make it about yourself because the problem is don't think of it as your problem. You have to think about what does the other side want to? So when you go into it, start by asking about them. What do they want? How are you feeling? There's definitely some tension, but tell me where you're experiencing it and then I'll get into mind. Empathy is not just understanding someone else's point of view. Learning how to communicate has been the number one thing for him. Most important.
Nicole Behnam is a founder and journalist. She is the creator of Beyond The Interview, a Beyond With Nicole, where she’s interviewed people like Chris Voss, Tom Bilyeu, and Robert Greene.
In this conversation, we spoke about turning friends into mentors, how Naval Ravikant spoke at one of her events, overcoming insecurities, reconciling friendships, and her Oscars speech.
(0:00) Intro
(1:30) Family
(5:00) LA Values
(8:01) Turning Friends Into Mentors (Chris Voss)
(15:03) Naval
(17:31) Deep Convos vs. Red Carpet
(20:19) Covering Andrew Schulz In 2018
(24:41) Nicole’s Brilliant Content Strategy
(27:44) Voice vs. Text Communication
(29:13) “Your Success Is Inevitable”
(31:33) Advocating For More
(33:31) Overcoming Insecurities
(40:09) Why Interviews
(42:06) Nicole 5 Years Ago
(44:43) Twitter Spaces
(49:01) Friendship & Beef With Leah Lamarr
(57:59) Reconciling With Friends
(1:01:31) What Do You Value?
(1:03:21) What Would Your Oscars Speech Be? (Parenting)
(1:16:32) More Experiences
(1:18:03) Challenge
Nicole's Links
Twitter: https://twitter.com/NicoleBehnam
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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@beyondwithnicole
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